In life, there are numeral stages we need to go through,


...childhood.. junior high.. high school.. college.. work industry...

Every stage we'll meet new people.. but how many of us actually able to keep our friendship until the end.. All those "You're my BFF(best friend forever)", " You're my closest friends" are craps..!

if you ask me, i'll say i do not believe this so-call-promise-words. We may be BFF for now but once we enter into the new stage and meet new people in life, with our busy schedule, it's nature that we'll leave our old friends behind.. Some of you may disagree with me, but who cares..I'm just saying out my POV. This is a democratic country-freedom to voice out, isn't it? ^^
*no offence ya*


i once had a close friend, we quickly became close friends during junior high. when we went to separate path in high school, we became pen pal.. We almost tell each other everything in the letter.. But as time goes by, and due to the hectic schedule both of us faced, slowly we stop writing letter to one another... and soon probably we'll forget each other or become hi-bye friends.


anyway, have you ever wonder what are friends for? to be use? to share each other ups and downs? im still wondering...
why i would ask? simple, because few months back, an old friend of mine contacted me. We hardly see one another for almost 3 years.. of cuz i was happy to hear from her. We chatted several times. Then, one day she asked me to join her company LB.. i refused and since then i did not hear from her at all.. on her bday i sent her a bday wish. Guess what? she asked "who are you..?" And last sat, she called and asked me to come for a carnival organized by her company.. she'll only look for me if she thinks she can benefit something...

So you tell me.. What are friends for?